Why do you fear your deepest desires?

(i.e. What are you afraid will happen if you allow yourself to have what you want?) I listen to people frequently talk about what is lacking in life.  They visualise, speak, imagine, and work towards their ambitions and goals.  They work so hard to create. These are also the same people who have a hard time receiving.  They reject compliments, … Read More

Can your Vulnerability Strengthen you?

(i.e. Is your stubbornness stopping your evolution?) There is a part of me that can appreciate a little rebellion.  There are times when shaking up the ‘status quo’ is good for the world.  But I can also see how we can become stubborn or fixed when we feel that our rights or desires are being pushed or threatened. Where does fixation … Read More

What do you refuse to see?

What do you refuse to acknowledge within? Avoidance is one of the ways that we attempt to protect ourselves. We believe on some level that if we refuse to acknowledge something, that it will not hurt us. But the opposite is true. Whatever you resist persists. Whatever you avoid sticks. Whatever you ignore will eventually make itself known. Often in … Read More

What is getting in your way?

What is getting in your way? (And why are you allowing it to stop you?) When I ask about barriers, distractions, blocks, or obstacles, I receive a variety of reasons and answers. Usually, they include negative belief systems, based off of what was learned at an early age (‘That’s all you’re getting’, ‘That won’t work’, ‘You don’t have the skills/knowledge/experience’, … Read More

How do you respond to fear?

Fear is one of my favorite topics. Ever. I love the ways in which people respond when you touch upon fear. Usually, they either dive into the conversation, happy for an outlet or opportunity to process and understand, or clam up, close off, sink down. We all have fears, and there will always be a degree of fear in our … Read More